Turned a corner

[MrBond]

You see how quickly he turned things around to make it that YOU are the one hurting him?

IMO, this is what you should do. The next time he starts spewing, when it gets out of hand, hold your hand up and say that you don't appreciate being talked to like that and will be happy to revisit the issue when things are less emotional. Then walk out.

You have to show him that you are going to be the strong one from now on. Not him.

This incident is only one event. It will get much worse. You can count on it.