This process IS about M after all, so I do not think that having goals based on certain things I would like to see from my W as inappropriate.
The way I see DB'ing is you understand you only control your own actions, but you also realize how those actions affect others. We look back and see how our negative actions affected our M's, DB'ing is about replacing those actions with positives to move it in the other direction.
You told me this ^^^^ when I asked about your goals about two weeks ago.
One of your goals was to see postive changes from your W. It works both ways my friend.
Do you think your choices right now are something your W would consider positive changes in you?
F@ck that...Do YOU think they are?
Country I am not trying to put tacks in your saddle here...
I am trying to make sure you know whether your choices are getting you where you want to be or if they are an excuse for not doing it.
Tough sh!t man. I am sorry but this is tough. There is no easy way through it.
Only way through it, is through it.
You won't get there by leaning on someone else.
It's your work.
If you choose to do it.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
