I am 100% positive he didn't buy OW a $300,000 car. If he did, I have bigger problems that a divorce. I out earn him. That said:

Today I met with my counselor and she suggested that I start making small changes in my life to be prepared for the worst.

On my way home, I stopped into the Verizon store to look around. I inquired if I could take my phone number with me. He was contacted (it is his account) and all HELL broke loose on my way home....How dare you...blah blah blah, are you going off on your own. I paid that cell phone bill for almost 9 years for you. more vomit.

I was mulling over the probability that I would detach financially from him. Plus, I do not like that he has access to who calls me, who I call and so on. Not that I have anything to hide.

Yuck, when I finally thought we had resolved, he would move (as planned) and we would go from there.

Thoughts?


me:51
H: 48
No kids together
M:14 years
seperated:Ask him to GET OUT 3/21/11
Piecing 09/14