Originally Posted By: michelleLT
Trust her to figure it out for herself. Even if you think she is making a mistake, trust her to learn from it.


Read that ^^^^^ again.

It is not just about finances 2step.

We all fall into patterns and take it from a recovering fixer/rescuer

The best thing you can do is let her make her own mistakes and fix them herself.

That is how we grow and gain our own self respect.

If I may...

And I will. I'll bet this was a pattern in your M?

Show her that you are a man who respects her enough to support her choices.

Cycling? We all still do it no matter where we are in this journey. You will have emotions and feelings pop up.

It is only that you get better at being aware of it when it happens and control it.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am