detached from everyone - but ok...

[AntoniaB]

I can't get over your strength in all this. I could never stay friends with my XH. Just, never. The weird thing is there would be a chance I think if he didn't have the OW in his life--if we just were apart and divorced. I even think if we were divorced and THEN he met someone, I'd be ok. But her? No way. It just sickens me to think of him with her. So for that reason I can't pull this off.

But if you can do it, more power to you--because in the end it's probably best since you have kids.

Your progression is really inspiring.