This whole experience was reminded in alamo's thread. How a separated couple care for a sick child.

It is in time's like these that I wish my W and I could be there for our S together. When MWD says that you should leave no stone unturned if considering divorce when children are involved, it is for these reasons and many others down the road.

I know that my W's situation is a little different than most, but sometimes I just want to reach out to her and explain this to her. Maybe in her fog, she has been thinking deeply about the impact her decision will have on our S. Short term and for the rest of his life.

I know I am ranting about my W's decisions that I have no impact on and need to take care of me and my fathering of my S. Hope there is no harm and writing down a few of my pains.

Tonight, I am taking care of myself and watching a movie with a buddy of ours. No more sulking.


Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated