Unfortunately this is a process (SLOW ONE) and every one of us has had to claw and scratch our way through each step.
I know when I first came to this bb I was a total WRECK and had absolutely nowhere to turn.
This was a Godsend to find others who were going through the same thing that UNDERSTOOD! And would LISTEN!
I was in MLC for a long time and it was VERY depressing there. I was very happy to come to peicing when we started seeing each other again.
It's been on again, off again, but I feel I belong here.
I've recieved invaluble advise here, and it's the ones that have come further along that have the most to offer.
They've been to the school of hard knocks, and know what works and what deosn't.
They also give us hope that we too can have a happy M someday because every one of them went through the blood sweat and tears that it took to get where they are.
There are NEVER any guarantees, but really there are quite a few success stories, and that's good for us to hear.
It's not always doom and gloom. Mainly we have to get to the place where we're ok no matter what happens. If we can do that, then we're all success stories! Rachael