"she still wants the divorce to go thru but wants us to date and if everything goes well we can go to the courthouse and renew our vows."

This is a cop out. The D won't do anything to change the sitch. IMO, keep up the positive interactions so that she stops thinking about D. DO NOT bring up R talks. DO NOT backslide into your angry ways. You're on a roll so far. Keep it up.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER