"she still wants the divorce to go thru but wants us to date and if everything goes well we can go to the courthouse and renew our vows."
This is a cop out. The D won't do anything to change the sitch. IMO, keep up the positive interactions so that she stops thinking about D. DO NOT bring up R talks. DO NOT backslide into your angry ways. You're on a roll so far. Keep it up.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.