...the teacher appears

[sage]

Anyway, here's the suggestion. If you don't have it already, IMMEDIATELY go out and get the book "The Relationship Cure" by John Gottman.

I've been working through it this week and it's as if every light in the house is being turned on finally. It's not a crisis-management book; rather it explains the building blocks to an emotional connection.

Knowing how you're constantly striving (and succeeding, I might add) at strengthening your bond with your H, well, you naturally came to my mind.

Hud! I love Gottman's works...just put your suggestion on reserve at the library. Thanks for thinking of me! I can't wait to see all the lights coming on

Sage