Piecing is almost harder than before #2...

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Harrier here text to you is awesome! Nice work....

I was just in the car for a couple of hours and had some time to think. I was thinking about the following things that I learned over in newcomers months and months ago.

(a) Someone (Coach, I think) said that: thoughts lead to feelings and feelings lead to actions.

(b) They also said: Their actions will tell you what they THINK and their words will tell you what they FEEL.

(btw, I take "actions" in A to mean Big Actions and Actions in B to mean smaller day-to-day actions.)

Now, if I follow this logic, that means:

Thoughts (what she does day-to-day) ==> to Feelings (what she says) ==> Actions (the bigger ones)

W has been acting in a day-to-day way towards me great for a while now, but as you'll recall from my griping, there's been nothing physical (i.e the bigger actions). In the last week or so, there have been a couple of times where her WORDS have been coming back (i.e. the "my man" comment from yesterday, calling me "honey" a couple of times, etc). Nothing big, but still. Maybe now, I have my chart that I can plot progress on! Some of you will slam me for that, but it works for me! I need to see it!