Hold on to the optimism. Definitely get in shape. There are plenty of fish in the sea, know that you can easily find someone else if you want to.
You are here because you CHOOSE to fight for your W and family, not because you have no other options.
The decisive action of a strong man, not the desperate act of a weak man.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
