How long should you try? Until........

[Starsky309]

2step

You have been here long enough so no 2X4's

You are still being too available.

You feel this

it sounds like she is doing me a favor. Maybe its silly but it gets under my skin.

Because it is so.

You are spending way too much time thinking and watching her.

Back off for a bit. Give her some room to miss you.

See how long she will go without talking to you. Let her make contact next.

And if she contacts don't be so eager to respond.

Don't tell her you were lying in bed missing the crap out of her.

It is pressure and it makes her feel guilty which is why she says she "might" call you later.

You know what to do BUT you're not doing it.

No more BUTS.

Do better.

Sorry maybe that was a thinly veiled 2x4.

You got this man. Just do it.

Here, TG said it far better than I could (or did -- my posts are still "fully moderated," so I don't think my reply to you has shown up yet).

Starsky