First on my list of things to immediately bust are my feelings of overwhelm and inadequacy.
When I'm feeling overwhelmed I know it means I have lost sight of the things that are truly most important to me.
Rather than staying stuck, the solution is to simply make a list of the things that are overwhelming me, put them in order of priority and get to work crossing them off my list. No stories necessary. When the pressure is on you, start, and the pressure will be off.
When I am feeling inadequate I am feeling that I unable to perform the task at hand.
Rather than giving up, giving in, or feeling beaten, broken or depressed before I even start, get excited! Appreciate that here is another opportunity for growth. Do something to get better right away.
I am being the possibility of:
1) Integrity 2) Loving myself completely. 3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.