How long should you try? Until........

[MichelleLT]

It's worse to be 30 miles away and have more emotional distance. Take my word on that.

My XH went weeks without contacting me and worked hard to avoid me around town. It was agony wondering every time I went out to eat if I was going to have to see him and OW.

That doesn't mean what you are going through isn't painful, but you need to put it in perspective. You have a lot of contact, and the physical distance is less than the emotional distance.

Plus, distance also works in your favor. Periods of NC also work in your favor. She has to have that to miss you.

Just because she hasn't contacted you doesn't mean she's not thinking about you. So don't assume, cuz you know what that does right? It makes an a$$ out of u and me both!