Originally Posted By: Truegritter
2step

You have been here long enough so no 2X4's

You are still being too available.

You feel this

Originally Posted By: 2step
it sounds like she is doing me a favor. Maybe its silly but it gets under my skin.


Because it is so.

You are spending way too much time thinking and watching her.

Back off for a bit. Give her some room to miss you.

See how long she will go without talking to you. Let her make contact next.

And if she contacts don't be so eager to respond.

Don't tell her you were lying in bed missing the crap out of her.

It is pressure and it makes her feel guilty which is why she says she "might" call you later.

You know what to do BUT you're not doing it.

No more BUTS.

Do better.

Sorry maybe that was a thinly veiled 2x4.

You got this man. Just do it.




Gritter:

Why is it? Why is it that I know this but I do it anyway? Why is that we know what we have to do but refuse? I know the fire is hot, but I touch it.

I will do this.

She might call tonight. Ok. If she does not I will not contact her. I will wait. I will see how long before she reaches out.

By the way-Never apologize for issuing me a 2x4. If you show up and don’t I think maybe something is wrong.

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