So I’m at 95 posts. Rather than wait to get locked I am starting a new thread. I am changing the title dropping the Newbie and titling it to What to do next. Here is a link to the previous one
I can waste no energy worrying about this. It changes little in how I approach what I need to do.
I didn't say to "worry" about it. It most certainly should change the way you approach things. The man who doesn't change his game plan based on the circumstances and facts is wasting time and energy.
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W and I have a huge history together with many good memories; eventually W will recall these or complete her rewrite of history. I have no control over this and if I am involved in trying to remind her it only damages the effort.
You sound like you are just making talking points and quoting what you have heard from others. You DO have some control over this. The way you act, respond and handle this can very well help you OR hurt you. So, stop talking like that. You DO have some control over this.
Gucci, I spent a good amount of this weekend thinking about the possibility of an OM involved in either a EA or a PA. I did not snoop although I did ask a family member what they thought or if they had seen evidence of such.
There is no evidence now. Could it happen in the future? Yes, W is vulnerable to this type of predation.
So specifically what changes are you referring to?
Feedback from this board, DR, DB coaching and one other book I am reading are the resources I am using on this journey. Some parroting is natural.
Specifically what control are you referring to?
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
