Well there have been some new developments since my last post. My wife has been texting and calling me. I believe she is hurt that I had a lady friend. She told me that she loves me but feels I have thrown her under the bus to family and friends. She also wants me to admit to an affair which never happened many years ago. She sais I would need to admit to this prior to counseling. My position is that I will not admit to something I did not do. I would enter counseling but she wont unless I admit to something I did not do. I have a call out to a counselor and see what is advised. Bobby o