It's not that she doesn't want to hear it, but I can't do it without expecting the return ILY and when I don't get it, I get angry. The only solution is not to say it. Just like all the other stuff.
Morning Harrier, I'm confused. So, why is the only solution to not say it? Do you see any value in doing some reflection to figure out why, when you don't hear it back you get angry? Why does that make you angry?
I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.