It really does. TBH, I just started getting sick of her having it both ways.

I can't imagine what she is thinking, I'll never know. But, before this all started, she didn't even want to do a 2 night trip out of town because it would be too much time away from D. Now she goes multiple days every week without seeing her. I don't know how that cannot be hard on her. And all these text messages when I have D is only to make it easier on her. I don't think that is my responsibility. She made the choice to leave, she will need to live with those consquences.

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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.