Interesting...

Not sure if OW wasn't around this weekend? H didn't get all dressed up for "work" on Saturday, just shorts and a t-shirt. Yesterday he stayed with our family all day. He even commented "Wow I haven't left the house today". Very very unusual for him. It was nice because son was home from college so all four of us just hung out and discussed daughters college options. She just found out yesterday that she got into her dream school! Now the fun begins....

H still seems sullen. We had fun at the play on Saturday night (of course he didn't comment on my dress) but we ended up having dinner at the same restaurant where we had our rehearsal dinner 22 years ago. Very relaxing.

I wonder what is going on in his mind. I wonder if he feels trapped in this life. I don't see a lot of joy in him.


Me - 49
H - 56
S - 23
D - 20
Married 25 years
H moved out 10/11/13
H moved back in 10/13/13
H moved out again 8/1/14