Sandi about appearing taller with H: "It didn't bother him.....it was me and my insecurities."

I see.

So it could be when we first met and dated and married, W was somewhat insecure?

In hindsight W did show up with plenty of baggage, what with her mother divorcing her father while she was still in HS and then she divorces her first H after a very short time.

Don't get me wrong, I had my own baggage, but I am not talking about me right now.

I did say above that I thought the heels and respect correlation might be a little silly. Because of the timing, it is I believe however another indication of her WAW syndrome.

Me 53 XW 50
M 18 Years +2
S14 D19
Bomb 10-24-10
Served 1-27-11
Mediate 4-21-11
Civil D Final 6-2-11
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"A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."