I know you're just venting,
but from your rant, it appears she has a stranglehold on your emotions.
You are so not detached.
Get off the coaster FOBD.
Do it for you man.

Me 53 XW 50
M 18 Years +2
S14 D19
Bomb 10-24-10
Served 1-27-11
Mediate 4-21-11
Civil D Final 6-2-11
No church anullment
"A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."