M
sorry..I know how hard this all is

I agree definitely watch your finances
see a lawyer just to get advice..dont tell h..this way you know your rights
seperate the money if you can, the MLCer spends everything and some go in debt..my xh did
they are not the same men we thought we M and you may only get glimples of him and many, many lies

as for You
eat, sleep rest
you can do it
as you will read, many if not all of the LBS thrive and usually become whole and happy in time
we have many internal resourses that emerge as we live each day
You will figure it out and it takes time
you will learn to take care of your children and work and gal in time
stay with IC if you can it helps
the children usually seem to adjust, maybe they may have things to work out but they would have things anyway even if the M worked
Jim Conway has many books on MLC most libraries have them
MLC is not your fault..
seems it may have something to do with childhood issues and only the MLCer can do the work
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow