My story

[sbrass]

Thanks. Yes, this makes sense, and indeed I think I do a lot of affirming and appreciation. There is now on her side, I think, a real recognition that there IS a problem, that it is OUR problem, and not just mine. That my desires and needs are legitimate. But there ain't no miracle. I think, no, I'm sure, that she would be quite happy with the odd cuddle, but no more full sex. And I find this really hard. I want to SHARE desire and sexual pleasure, not just satisfy myself.