Shine on you crazy diamond III

[Queen_of_Swords]

FOBD, darlin' haven't you noticed that your texts haven't been getting through in a timely fashion these days? I have.
The system isn't perfect. Give her the benefit of the doubt. It costs you nothing and saves you much angst.

and even so, you might be forgetting something, right now...she's frozen that part of herself off, she's numb to you and your needs. She can't afford to care, it hurts too much.

Cut yourself some slack here. Your feelings are hurt, and you don't feel valued by her. Rejection hurts.


If you break it down and are able to categorize the type of rejection it is, it becomes easier to handle.

It all hurts but...

1) it's not a big deal. It's not true and once that person knows me better they'll know I'm not that way.

2) it's not a big deal. It's not true, and that person is very negative and nothing I do or say will change their mind.

3) it is true, and it is a flaw I have, but I'm working to change that the best I can, and on balance I have more strengths than weaknesses.