i guess it's a natural sequence of events to eventually grow out of the need of the bb
and please this is no attempt at guilt here - but there is priceless comfort in knowing that even tho certain divorces may be "busted" that there is still struggling, not just with the r but with inner turmoil
just coming here to chronical your feelings shows that there is still work ahead for all of us, that it never is EASY to be in a marriage - and that it is quite normal to still have insecurities
but one thing sage, realize your limits. you cannot help EVERYONE with your sage advice, and i for one would be perfectly ok if you never posted on my thread again, but posted to yours so that i can watch your growth if this meant you stayed around
