Just wanted to report the weekend went really well. H actually acts uncomfortable around me and doesn't want to be around me too much. This is new, as I am usually the one uncomfortable, and now I am not. I just "act as if" and focus on what I want to do. H actually made plans for the whole weekend with D16 so they kept busy and out of the way when I was here. When we were all here together, I just went about as if he wasn't here. I didn't even offer to cook dinner for us. I let him and D16 work out their own plans and meals. So he left with no dinner and D16 had to fend for herself. All in all, I had no expectations, and no real anxious moments. Next interaction will be on Sat. night as we have tickets to go see D16 in her school musical. We bought these previous to A discovery. I did tell him if he did not want to go on that night or with someone else it would be fine with me, as I could find someone else to attend with me. He said no, he would attend with me. So, I will have more to update then. I have no idea and really don't care what is going on with him right now. I just keep praying for him and for my daughter who still struggles with being around him. Blessings to all!
Lorie W47 H48 D16 M20 H gone 11/9/10 lives w/OW
When you forgive,you heal. When you let go,you grow. When you cry to God, you surrender. When you love unconditionally, you show others Christ's love.
