Most of my people think that I am nuts to have let this go on for this long.
Most people would think that. It is not about what others think it is about what you feel is right. This is YOUR M not theirs it is not about how they feel, it is about how YOU feel
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I think my biggest problem is that I feel like this isn't a controlled separation,
Niether one has agreed to date other people, neither has filed for a D she has left but has not emotionally D you yet. You still have contact and she has asked for time and space. It is pretty controlled, just doesn't feel that way.
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I still think she was honest yesterday when she told me that she's trying to figure things out and hasn't had the space to do so...
Don't be part of the problem be part of the solution