Originally Posted By: sandi2
[quote] You just have to keep yourself from doing it. Each time you resist the temptation to contact, that's a big step in detaching.



So, should I even call to talk to my kids? I am going to be here another 5 or 6 days.


Me - 39 yrs old
Wife - 39 yrs old
Married - 18 years
Together - almost 21 year
Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10
Bomb Dropped in May 2010
Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out