Quote: Sage, Opt found this on Hud's thread... a quote from you. Any more thoughts on this issue? Did you call a DB counselor about it? Any insight would be appreciated.
Holding...I have to admit I'm behind in everyone's sitch...so I'm not sure if there's something specific behind your question or if it's more general ("OW is still in the picture...how do I handle that?")....
I have a post WAY BACK that recounts my phone consult...a lot of it was centered around my trying to deal with thoughts of OW, etc...I'll try to dig it up today...
In general, though, my post to Hud was to just articulate that DB'ing while an OP is around is DIFFICULT but not impossible. Focusing on what you can control...setting goals for YOU...etc...all the fundamentals still apply.
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
