Nothing to be done for it but continue to work on our own failings, seek understanding, empathy,and do what fits in with our own moral code and principles. DB is part of that.
If you're interested and update and more on my situation is posted in MidLife Crisis.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.