Thanks Scylla.

Can't say I am happy you're still here - I'm wishing you had someplace even better you could be - but I am grateful you are here.

Today I am finally starting to see it is not just about me.
I am not the only one who is struggling.
And I am not the only one in pain.

My wife is suffering, too.
Probably even more than me.

I can see now I need to take all the pressure off of her.
Even if that means ending our marriage as soon as she desires.

Even if it means loss of income and opportunity for me.

If she really needs to be free,
then I simply have to let her.

Because she knows better than me
what is best for her.

Usually I have a lot to say,
but right now that is already sounding
like a lot more than I really want to hear.

Gets me thinking even more about what I have contributed
to this drama. Gonna sit with this awhile.

peace.

I am being the possibility of:

1) Integrity
2) Loving myself completely.
3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.

"It's do-able." What are the actions now?