Iron, I am proud of you. You seem to be in the right frame of mind right now. Keep up the good work and stay the course. Maybe the ice is beginning to thaw with your W. Yes, being together is better for the children, but only if it also means that the two of you are getting better with your marriage. Just give that some thought.

Hang in there buddy. BITS never walk alone!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...