Thanks for your reply. You said i have a lot going on for me, in what way did you mean? Im sorry you are going through this. It must be difficult with your son being so young. thank God you have him though. That's great that you are a teacher. I wish i had gotten my degree and could support myself. Im going to take my son for his tennis tryout today. He is going for his license wed. which makes me sad. I enjoy driving him places and im going to worry like crazy when he is out driving, and im going to miss him. He is a great kid though i can trust him. He goes to a really good catholic high school, thank God. I did go to divorce care but it was kind of far away, and i dont like to leave my son alone a lot. There is another group tonight maybe ill go. I get nervous going to new groups. I wish you lived nearby and we could be friends and help each other. God bless you and you son.