Hi Confounded. It's been a couple of weeks since you last posted... I hope you're still checking on this.
First, I'm so sorry that you're having to deal with this pain... it's not easy to say the least. Have you been applying the DB tactics in the book? Like GAL, acting as-if, detaching... these things will help you begin to sort out what's the best approach for you. You both were involved with other people in some way... have you determined the reason why you leaned on someone else emotionally?
When she says things like she's never coming back or that everything's your fault try to remember to not believe half of what she says...
Maybe posting a more detailed story on the Newcomers board would help as well.
Me 34 H 37 M 12/97 H moved out 03/09 D 05/10 S 17 D 12 S 11
