I agree with needing the language for you. That's why I did it too.
My XH seems to be peeking out of his tunnel a bit and he seems to consider me to be someone he can talk to these days. His mother is dying and he's letting down his walls. I think he may have split with his most recent GF. In short, things have changed dramatically in the last 12 months.
I have been visiting your thread when I can. You have grown so much stronger since the bomb. I am happy for you.
