I put language saying that I didn't believe our M was irretrievably broken in my D decree. My H/XH didn't have any trouble with the language but I had to stand firm with my L to get it put in. My L was concerned that the judge might not want to sign the decree with that language in it. My judge was a real cowboy. I'm sure he didn't even look at the decree.
Fast forward to today.....2 years after our D decree was signed...........my XH seems to be coming out of his fog and I think he probably remembers that I didn't think our M was irretrievably broken.
