I second that! We get such wonderful insight from Sage's eloquent writing. She seems to put into words what we feel and it feels like, well, like someone is validating what we feel!
I'm very happy for the turn her M has taken. I can only imagine what it's like to have my H say the the things Sage's does.
It serves to show us what CAN happen. She was down and out once too and can relate to everything we are going through.
I DO think there needs to be some kind of help for those of us in piecing when we are back together with our S and have to deal with a whole new set of fears and insecurities when the old feelings still don't go away just because our S comes back.
There is still some serious work to be done then. I've been there. My H came home and left TWICE!
I know I did not handle myself as I would now, given time has passed and I've learned so much. Still......I'm not sure things would have been any different.
I think the WAS needs to come to an awakening of what they really want and heartfelt remorse for what they've done before the M can thrive.
Sage, I hope your having a wonderful time, and please hurry back to us! Rachael
