Thank for reply. I feel h and i have grown further apart for the past 4 mos because i stopped calling him. I spoke to Laurie about 3 mos ago and she told me to continue to call h once in awhile because h always seemed like he wanted to talk. Now i think he is so distant from me because i stopped calling and i blame myself for making things worse not calling him. I dont want to d him, but he has such a spending addiction it worries me.