I agree with SC. sexually attraction comes within you.. If you are feeling low about yourself then your H will too. I have been through this with my H. The more confident I am with myself the more he wanted me. Take a good look at what you are thinking and feeling about YOU. It makes a huge difference.
Don't get me wrong here...most of the time I fail at this, I just know there is a difference when I am happy with myself.
Me:35, 2 kids from PR H: 37, 2 kids with me T: 15 years M: 8 years in Feb. Second walk out: 14-01-2011 H had PA: 2007