[quote=Scylla_Charibdis The biggest sexual attractant out there, is self confidence and love of your own body. [/quote]
This ^. My wife is is extremely attractive, looks 35 instead of 45, and is slim and has a body men stare at and women are jealous of. Everywhere we go, men stare. YET, she is increasingly critical of herself and her body. Her self confidence is extremely low right now - and I have to agree, there is nothing less sexy than a woman with low self esteem. Don't fall into that trap!
Believe me, I know how hard it is to feel confident and secure with yourself right now - but FAKE it if you must. And yes, I know it sounds easy and is really a struggle. But I think you can do it. If worse comes to worst - OTHER men will notice. Good Luck!
