Asked H if he could take kids tomorrow from 10-4. He says no. Won't tell me why, just that he has plans. Seems like a huge game with him the last few days. Tells me he needs to spend more time with kids but when given opportunity he totally bales on them. I think H is getting some stupid advice from people.
And yes, I know I cannot control him. I know I cannot make him do things...I know, I am in need of another 2X4....I just have issues when it comes to the kids. H was the first one to bitch if my X was not doing and doing for MY oldest boys. h would complain he didnt give me enough money, didnt spend enough time with them, didnt get involved with them enough...(X lives 5 hrs away and flies boys there 3 to 4 times a year. drives up at least twice a year)
The worst part is, is I know he really isn't doing anything tomorrow. H is being coached to play a game. It's one thing to play games with me, but another to play them with the kids. what kind of a$$ puts his kids last?????
Just frustrated with sitch today. i actually thought he was gonna try the honest route after Thursday...stupid me! Why do I keep falling for his lies????? What is wrong with me?
Me:35, 2 kids from PR H: 37, 2 kids with me T: 15 years M: 8 years in Feb. Second walk out: 14-01-2011 H had PA: 2007
