Something tells me that she would get pretty defensive if you tried to make a list of her faults.
Sandi,
You would be right. Early on she asked me if there was anything she could have done better. I said, "I'm not the type of person that looks for the negative in people. Oh wait, there is something. You could have told me we were heading for a train wreck and you were talking to someone outside of our M about our issues".
Guess what? She got defensive and proceeded to blame everything on me. Now I just listen and validate.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
