2step, I think you are right. Escalating is not what we need right now. Should I apologize for telling her what I did last night? Thinking about going dark for awhile too...and stopping talking to friends and family about the sitch...it is not helping my cause at all.
Apologize only if you feel you put her in an uncomfortable position, not to get some sort of reaction.
I said this before on your thread.
Friends and family are like boomerangs.
This is about YOU and your M but mostly about YOU. They can't help you. This is something you have to do on your own.
