Sometime I feel like you are asking for permission to divorce your husband. This is completely your call. I will never say, it's time for you to file. But I would say take really good care of yourself. It's better for you and makes you even more attractive.
I would also say, if you choose to file, it's ok. We still support you and care about you. If you choose to still DB your H, that's ok, and if you choose to move on, it's ok. No judgment either way.
You know I divorced my first husband and would never go back, although I do wish I had learned this DBing to improve my marriage so it would never have gotten to that point. Or better yet before I got married so I could have learned great relationship skills and found out who could do that with me before I got married.
G and I have great relationship skills now and we're both sure we're together forever.
What we really want for you, rys, is to be really happy. You get one go around. Just one. We are with you no matter what you choose to do.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
