Been awhile since I have posted to you and see that you are still in such pain!
If your H is spending all this money on OW then you really, really need to think about protecting yourself financially.
Have you read Brooklyn's story in MLC? Her H took everything and she is stuck with half the debt! She and her son both have health issues, she is having a hard time finding a job...your stories are very similiar.
Rys....protect yourself and your son before it is too late! IF that means filing for a LS or a D then so be it!
It is time to put your son and you first!!!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing