What H is really angry about is the money. He told me that even though I told him I would not take him to the cleaners he always knew I would. I told him I was sorry that he felt that me getting half of what we have right now was taking him to the cleaners...
He really is off his rocker if he thinks I'm going to sit back after he filed for D while he and ow live the high life. I've financed their trips, remodeling, and weekend shopping for over a year now. Now, it's come down to push vs. shove and I'm not getting shoved anymore.
H has had it his way for 17 months now. He filed and I had no choice but either to protect myself and kids or not. I choose to protect us.
In his spew H accused me of trying to get even for him leaving by taking 'his' money. He said, that I would never get even! I calmly told H that he was right, I could never get even for what he has done.
Not the best DBing, but hey, I did validate what he was saying.
What I meant by saying that is that the money that I was getting was temporary. It would be little in comparison to what we would have had by staying married. Later, I realized that H may have thought I meant getting even for the damage he has caused. Hey, that shoe fits too, so it doesn't really matter. It's been said and it's done.
