Sage, I'm really debating as what to do. I need some input from those who have gone before me. In your R did you have to DETACH from H before he started showing a real interest in you again? Did you do 180's like stop calling him and asking him out? To what point did you have to detach? I guess what I fear is this. Aren't they already DETACHED from us?? I mean if they weren't, they'd be eager to go out with us and talk to us. If we detach, then no one will be attached. Am I making sense here?? DO you see what I mean? I think H may be looking for an excuse and that excuse may end up being that I stopped calling and we stopped seeing each other. I'm really not sure about this-it's really scary. Rachael
