Need help ASAP- panic attacks

[angel61]

I have an appointment for D12 to see a child psychologist on Wednesday. My question to those who have experience on this: Should I talk to the psychologist first or should I let my daughter go by herself? Will it help if both me and my H are there, or maybe safer if only me and D12 would go?

The psychologist said I could do whatever suits me, but I am afraid as I am not sure if she is more of the "what is best for me" type of therapist.

Just like my eperience with the psychiatrist who refused to give me meds for fear of blunting my emotions and not making the right choices. I do hear him and understand but I do want more time and being "blunted" i feel will help me think more clearly and stop my impulses.

Its sad how the "me" mentality is sometimes contributing to the demise of the family.