I don't believe it's time to give up. Time to use the right words for the right things though. Sexual attraction begins in the brain, there is a lot you can do to turn that around that don't involve dressing like Britney Spears. Mae West wasn't exactly beautiful. The biggest sexual attractant out there, is self confidence and love of your own body.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.